Abhidhamma in Daily life
Chapter
6
THE CHARACTERISTIC OF DOSA
When
we are angry with other people we harm ourselves by our anger. The Buddha
pointed out the adverse effects of anger (dosa). We read in the 'Gradual
Sayings' (Book of the Sevens, Ch.VI, par. 10, Anger) about the ills a rival
wishes his rival to have and which are actually the ills coming upon an
angry woman or man. The sutta states:
...Monks, there is the case
of the rival, who wishes
thus of a rival: 'Would that he
were ugly!'. And why?
A rival, monks, does not like a
handsome rival. Monks,
this sort of person, being angry,
is overwhelmed by
anger; he is subverted by anger:
and however well
he be bathed, anointed, trimmed
as to the hair and
beard, clad in spotless linen; yet
for all that he is ugly,
being overwhelmed by anger. Monks,
this is the first
condition, fostered by rivals, causing
rivals, which comes
upon an angry woman or man.
Again, there is the case
of the rival, who wishes
thus of a rival: 'Would that he
might sleep badly!' And
why? A rival, monks, does not like
a rival to sleep
well. Monks, this sort of person,
being angry, is
overwhelmed by anger... and in spite
of his lying on
a couch, spread with a fleecy cover,
spread with a
white blanket, spread with a woollen
coverlet, flower
embroidered, covered with rugs of
antelope skins, with
awnings above; or on a sofa, with
crimson cushions
at either end; yet for all that
he lies in discomfort,
being overwhelmed by anger. Monks,
this is the second
condition....
We then read about other ills a rival
wishes for his rival, which come upon an angry woman or man. We read that
a rival wishes his rival to be without prosperity, wealth and
fame. Further we read that a rival
wishes a rival to be without friends and this happens to someone who is
an angry person.
The text states:
'Monks, this sort of person,
being angry... whatever
friends, intimates, relations and
kinsmen he may have,
they will avoid him and keep far
away from him, because
he is overwhelmed by anger...'
A rival wishes his rival to have
an unhappy rebirth
and this can happen to an angry
person. We read:
‘…..Monks, this sort of person, being
angry... he
misconducts himself in deed, in
word and thought; so
living, so speaking and so thinking,
on the breaking
up of the body after death he is
reborn in the untoward
way, the ill way, the abyss, hell....'
We would like to live in a world
of harmony and unity among nations and we are disturbed when people commit
acts of violence. We should consider what is the real cause of war and
discord between people: it is the defilements which people have accumulated.
When we have aversion we think that other people or unpleasant situations
are the cause of our aversion. However, our accumulation of dosa is the
real cause that aversion arises time and again. If we want to have less
dosa we should know the characteristic of dosa and we should be aware of
it when it arises.
Dosa has many degrees; it can be
a slight aversion or it can be more coarse, such as anger. We can recognize
dosa when it is coarse, but do we realize that we have dosa when it is
more subtle? Through the study of the Abhidhamma we learn more about the
characteristic of dosa. Dosa is an akusala cetasika (mental factor) arising
with an akusala citta. A citta rooted in dosa is called in Pali: dosa-mula.citta.
The characteristic of dosa is different from the characteristic of lobha.
When there is lobha, the citta likes the object which it experiences at
that moment, whereas when there is dosa, the citta has aversion towards
the object it experiences. We can recognize dosa when we are angry with
someone and when we speak disagreeable words to him. But when we are afraid
of something it is dosa as well, because one has aversion towards the object
one is afraid of. There are so many things in life we are afraid of: one
is afraid of the future, of diseases, of accidents, of death. One looks
for many means in order to be cured of anguish, but the only way is the
development of the wisdom which eradicates the latent
tendency of dosa.
Dosa is conditioned by lobha: we
do not want to lose what is dear to us and when this actually happens we
are sad. Sadness is dosa, it is akusala. If we do not know things
as they are, we believe that people
and things last. However, people and things are only phenomena which arise
and fall away immediately. The next moment they have changed already. If
we can see things as they are we will be less overwhelmed by sadness. It
makes no sense to be sad about what has happened already.
In the 'Psalms of the Sisters' (Therigatha,
33) we read that the king's wife Ubbiri mourned the loss of her daughter
Jiva. Every day she went to the cemetery. She met the
Buddha who told her that in that
cemetery about eighty-four thousand of her daughters (in past lives) had
been burnt.
The Buddha said to her:
'O, Ubbiri, who wails in
the wood
Crying, O Jiva! O my daughter dear!
Come to yourself! See, in
this burying-ground
Are burnt full many a thousand
daughters dear,
And all of them were named
like unto her.
Now which of all those Jivas
do you mourn?'
After Ubbiri pondered over the Dhamma
thus taught by the Buddha she developed insight and saw things as they
really are; she even attained arahatship.
There are other akusala cetasikas
which can arise with cittas rooted in dosa. Regret or worry, in Pali: kukkucca,
is an akusala cetasika which arises with dosa-mula-citta at the moment
we regret something bad we did or something good we did not do. When there
is regret we are thinking of the past instead of knowing the present moment.
When we have done something wrong it is of no use having aversion.
Envy (issa) is another cetasika which
can arise with dosa-mula-citta. There is envy when we do not like someone
else to enjoy pleasant things. At that moment the citta does
not like the object it experiences.
We should find out how often envy arises, even when it is more subtle.
This is a way to know whether we really care for someone else or whether
we only think of ourselves when we associate with others.
Stinginess (macchariya) is another
akusala cetasika which may with dosa-mula-citta. When we are stingy there
is dosa as well. At that moment we do not like someone
else to share in our good fortune.
Dosa always arises with an unpleasant
feeling (domanassa vedana). Most people do not like to have dosa because
they do not like to have an unpleasant feeling. As we develop
more understanding of realities
we want to eradicate dosa not so much because we dislike unpleasant feeling
but rather because we realize the adverse effects of akusala.
The doorways through which dosa can
arise are the five sense-doors and the mind-door. It can arise when we
see ugly sights, hear harsh sounds, smell unpleasant odours, taste
unappetizing food, receive painful
bodily impressions and think of disagreeable things. Whenever there is
a feeling of uneasiness, no matter how slight, it is a sign that there
is
dosa. Dosa may often arise when
there are unpleasant impressions through the senses, for example, when
the temperature is too hot or too cold. Whenever there is a slightly
unpleasant bodily sensation dosa
may arise, be it only of a lesser degree
Dosa arises when there are conditions
for it. It arises so long as there is still attachment to the objects which
can be experienced through the five senses. Everybody would like to experience
only pleasant things and when we do not have them any more, dosa can arise.
Another condition for dosa is ignorance
of Dhamma. If we are ignorant of kamma and vipaka, cause and result., dosa
may arise very easily on account of an unpleasant
experience through one of the senses
and thus dosa is accumulated time and again. An unpleasant experience through
one of the senses is akusala vipaka caused by an unwholesome deed we perforrned.
When we, for example, hear unpleasant words from someone else we may be
angry with that person. Those who have studied Dhamma know that hearing
something unpleasant is akusala vipaka which is not caused by someone else
but by an unwholesome deed we performed ourselves. A moment of vipaka falls
away immediately, it does not stay. Are we not inclined to keep on thinking
about an unpleasant experience? If there is more awareness of the present
moment one will be less inclined to think with aversion about one's akusala
vipaka.
When we study the Abhidhamma we learn
that there are two types of dosa-mula-citta; one is asarikharika (unprompted)
and one is sasankharika (prompted). Dosa is sasankharika prompted) when,
for example, one becomes angry after having been reminded of the disagreeable
actions of someone else. When dosa is sankharika (unprompted) it is more
intense than when it is sasankharika. Dosa-mula-cittas are called patigha.sampayutta,
or accompanied by patigha, which is another word for dosa. Dosa.mula-cittas
are always accompanied by domanassa (unpleasant feeling). The two
type of dosa-mula-citta are:
1. Accompanied by unpleasant
feeling, arising with
anger, unprompted (Domanassa-sahagatam,
patigha-sampayuttam,
asankharikam ekam)
2. Accompanied by unpleasant feeling,
arising with
anger, prompted (Domanassa-sahagatam,
patigha-sampayuttam,
sasankharikam ekam)
As we have seen, there are many degrees
of dosa; it may be coarse or more subtle. When dosa is coarse, it causes
akusala kamma-patha (unwholesome deeds) through body, speech or mind. Two
kinds of akusala kamma-patha through the body can be performed with dosa-mula-citta:
killing and stealing. If we want less violence in the world we should try
not to kill. When we kill we accumulate a great deal of dosa. The monk's
life is a life of non-violence; he does not hurt any living being in the
world. However, not everyone is able to live like the monks. Defilements
are anatta (not
self); they arise because of conditions.
The purpose of the Buddha's teachings is not to lay down rules which forbid
people to commit ill deeds, but to help people to develop the wisdom which
eradicates defilements.
As regards stealing, this can either
be performed with lobha-mula-citta or with dosa-mula-citta. It is done
with dosa-mula-citta when there is the intention to harm someone else.
Doing damage to someone else's possessions is included in this kamma-patha.
Four kinds of akusala kamma-patha
through speech are performed with dosa-mula-citta: lying, slandering, rude
speech and frivolous talk. Lying, slandering and frivolous talk can
either be done with lobha-mula-citta
or with dosa-mula-citta. Slandering, for example, is done with dosa-mula-citta
when there is the intention to cause damage to someone else, such as doing
harm to his good name and causing him to be looked down upon by others.
Most people think that the use of weapons is to be avoided, but they forget
that the tongue can be a weapon as well, which can badly wound. Evil speech
does a great deal of harm in the world; it causes discord between people.
When we speak evil we harm ourselves, because at such moments akusala kamma
is accumulated and it is capable of producing akusala vipaka. We read in
the 'Sutta Nipata' (the Great Chapter, 'Khuddaka Nikava'):
Truly to every person born
An axe
is born within his mouth
Wherewith
the fool cuts himself
When he
speaks evil.
As regards akusala kamma-patha through
the mind performed with dosa-mula-citta, this is the intention to hurt
or harm someone else.
People often speak about violence
and the ways to cure It. Who of us can say that he is free from dosa and
that he will never kill? We do not know how much dosa we have
accumulated in the course of many
lives. When the conditions are there we might commit an act of violence
we did not realize we were capable of. When we understand how ugly dosa
and to what deeds it can lead we want to eradicate it.
In doing kind deeds to others we
cannot eradicate the latent tendency of dosa, but at least at those moments
we do not accumulate more dosa. The Buddha exhorted people
to cultivate lovingkindness (metta).
We read in the 'Karaniya Metta-sutta’ (Sutta Nipata, vs. 143-152 : I am
using the translation by Nanamoli Thera, Buddhist Publicafion Society,
Kandv, Sri Lanka.) what one should do in order to gain the 'state of peace'.
One should have thought of love for all living beings:
. ...In safety and in bliss
May creatures all be of a blissful
heart.
Whatever breathing beings there
may be,
No matter whether they are frail
or firm,
With none excepted, be they long
or big
Or middle-sized, or be they short
or small
Or thick, as well as those seen
or unseen,
Or whether they are dwelling far
or near,
Existing or yet seeking to exist,
May creatures all be of a blissful
heart.
Let no one work another one's undoing
Or even slight him at all anywhere;
And never let them wish each other
ill
Through provocation or resentful
thought.
And just as might a mother with her
life
Protect the son that was her only
child,
So let him then for every living
thing
Maintain unbounded consciousness
in being,
And let him too with love for all
the world
Maintain unbounded consciousness
in being
Above, below, and all around in
between,
Untroubled, with no enemy or foe....
The Buddha taught us not to be angry
with those who are unpleasant to us. We read in the Vinaya (Mahavagga X,
349 : Translation by Nanamoli Thera.) that the Buddha said to the monks:
They who (in thought) belabour
this: That man
has me abused, has hurt, has worsted
me,
has me despoiled: in these wrath
is not allayed.
They who do not belabour this: That
man
has me abused, has hurt, has wosted
me,
has me despoiled: in them wrath
is allayed.
Nay, not by wrath are wrathful moods
allayed here
(and) at any time,
but by not-wrath are they allayed:
this is an (ageless)
endless rule....
At times it seems impossible for us
to have metta instead of dosa. For example, when people treat us badly
we may feel very unhappy and we keep on pondering over our misery. When
dosa has not been eradicated there are still conditions for it to arise.
In being mindful of all realities which appear the wisdom is developed
which can eradicate dosa.
Dosa can only be eradicated stage
by stage. The sotapanna (who has attained the first stage of enlightenment)
has not yet eradicated dosa. At the subsequent stage of enlightenment,
the stage of the sakadagami (once-returner), dosa is not yet eradicate
completely. The anagami (non-returner, who has attained the third stage
of enlightenment) has eradicated dosa completely; he has no more latent
tendency of dosa.
We have not eradicated dosa, but
when dosa appears, we can be mindful of its characteristic in order to
know it as a type of nama, arising because of conditions. When there is
no mindfulness of dosa when it appears, dosa seems to last and we take
it for self; neither do we notice other namas and rupas presenting themselves.
Through mindfulness of namas and rupas which present themselves one at
a time, we will learn that there are different characteristics of nama
and rupa, none of which stays; and we will also know the characteristic
of dosa as only a type of nama, not self.
When a clearer understanding of realities
is developed we will be less inclined to ponder for a long time over an
unpleasant experience, since it is only a type of nama which does not last.
We will attend more to the present moment instead of thinking about the
past or the future. We will also be less inclined to tell other people
about unpleasant things which have happened to us, since that may be a
condition both for ourselves and for others to accumulate more dosa. When
someone is angry with us we will have more
understanding of his conditions;
he may be tired or not feeling well. Those who treat us badly deserve compassion
because they actually make themselves unhappy.
Right understanding of realities
will help us most of all to have more lovingkindness and compassion towards
others instead of dosa.
Questions
1. Why is lobha a condition
for dosa?
2. Lying, slandering and frivolous
talk are akusala kamma-patha through speech which can be performed either
with lobha-mula-citta or with dosa-mula-citta. When are they
performed with dosa-mula-citta?
3. Is there akusala kamma-patha
through the mind performed with dosa-mula-citta?
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